I am the very same way girl, I lost 50 lbs in a year, now I am eating clean for the last year and a half, lifting 5 times a week and doing Boot Camp classes twice a week, but still have a little bit of the gut everyone keeps saying it will go in time, so I still keep on keeping on, But for now I want to get bigger then cut right before next summer, so I am on a clean bulk!!!! I am also 38 going on 39, so I feel for ya!!!